A year ago today was Stephanie’s funeral. A year ago we laid her to rest in the cemetery and said our final goodbyes. I’m glad to see how much I’ve been able to grow over the last year, and yet I know I’ll always wish I could have one more minute, hour, day, month, or… Continue reading Eulogy
It’s almost been a year: a year since I sang her happy birthday, a year since I held her hand and kissed her forehead, a year since I lay with my head on her chest and heard her take her last breath… In some ways it seems like yesterday, and in some ways it seems… Continue reading Pay it Forward 9/22-9/24
I used to ask Stephanie this several times a week. It started one day when we were laying in bed and I honestly couldn’t remember. I asked her, she said she didn’t think so, and I told her I loved her. After that, it became more of a running joke, where even if I knew… Continue reading Have I told you I love you today?
Mother’s day is Sunday, and to be frank, I’m not looking forward to it. I still plan on calling my mom and having Sarah talk to her grandmothers, but without Stephanie this year, the mother of my child, I know this Mother’s day is going to be different. It’s going to be difficult, full of… Continue reading A Different Kind of Mother’s Day
Something I’ve struggled a lot with lately is being happy. I read a while back that as a widow/widower, you have to give yourself permission to be happy. I remember thinking that was the dumbest idea, because clearly I wanted to be happy, I just couldn’t be right then. Well as time’s gone on, I… Continue reading “we can have so much taken from us, but our joy is a choice”
Today marks one year since Stephanie started this blog. So much has changed in the last year, and a lot of that was because of this blog. This is another story about how the blog will have a lifelong affect on me and I hope so many others. Everyone who knew Stephanie knew that music… Continue reading “Trust in Him – Stephanie’s Song”
January 31, 2017. I was working late that week, so I was home in morning. It was just another day in life, nothing super odd. Stephanie had a doctor’s appointment that morning, but it wasn’t something that caught my attention. She came home, we all had lunch together, and we put Sarah down for a… Continue reading The Day Everything Changed…